We had a talk today. It was given by an old friend of my SV. So naturally, tonight, SV took him out for dinner, and naturally, he invited us all to join them, and naturally, when there's food, most of us would naturally be available, except me.
Tonight, we're going to visit a badminton club, just to get a feel of the club, and if it is all ok, I think alem would definitely want to join it.
2 days ago, we visited one, in fact, he even played with the other club members for almost 2 hours. It was a pretty friendly club, a few of them speak English rather well, so he had little problem mingling with the other members. But the club we're visiting today... I dont know, the English email that I sent to them was replied in Deutsch, which is all the more reason why I need to go along with him.
If he likes it too, then he can join both clubs and would have something to do almost every weeknight. Which is great for me, albeit the cost it'll incur. For a a guy, staying at home can be too depressing. The guy loves sports, and seeing him so happy when he's playing and talking about it animatedly all the time just light up my day.
So if it means missing a free dinner at a posh restaurant, well... so be it...